What if changing the story you tell yourself could transform your identity—and your life?
In this episode, we talk about something we all deal with—how we see ourselves, and how the stories we tell ourselves shape who we are. Our guest shares real-life experiences and expert knowledge to show how things like childhood memories and social pressure can affect our identity and daily choices.
The conversation highlights how powerful our thoughts and words are. Backed by neuroscience, we learn that the way we think can actually change how our brain and body work. When we start thinking more positively and treating ourselves with kindness, it can lead to real changes—not just in how we feel, but also in our health, success, and overall happiness.
The main idea? Your identity isn’t set in stone. You can change it by changing your inner story. By becoming more aware of your thoughts and practicing self-love, you can break free from negative patterns and become who you truly want to be.
Topics Covered:
- Rewriting Identity Through Awareness and Inner Transformation
- Overcoming Negative Self-Perceptions From High School Labels
- Overcoming Obstacles to Become the Heroine of Your Story
- Embracing the Athlete Mindset for Personal Growth
- Impact of Negative Self-Talk on Body’s Stress Response
- Cultivating Self-Love Through Positive Mindset and Intuitive Living
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right—eating well, exercising, pushing yourself—but your body just won’t let go of fat, there’s a reason.
Your nervous system is either in Protection Mode (fight-or-flight) or Safety Mode (rest-and-digest)—and fat release only happens in Safety Mode. But if your body feels unsafe? It clings to fat, slows metabolism, and even triggers binge eating and self-sabotage.
Think about it. You go through stress, and suddenly you’re reaching for food you swore you wouldn’t touch. You’re not weak—it’s biology. When your body is in survival mode, it’s wired to conserve energy and seek quick fuel. That’s why unwanted eating behaviors feel so out of control sometimes.
But here’s the kicker: fat loss isn’t just about burning calories—it’s about making your body feel safe enough to let go.
So the real question is—are you pushing your body into Protection Mode without even realizing it? Because if you are, no amount of dieting or exercise is going to override survival mode.
It’s time to stop fighting your body and start working with it.
So if you’re ready to Break Free from Emotional and Binge Eating, download my FREE eBook: Calm the Craving: 7 Steps to Break the Emotional and Binge Eating Battle.
In this guide, you’ll learn how to regulate your nervous system to eliminate cravings, make peace with food, and allow the weight to naturally release itself.
Download your free copy here: www.sherryshaban.com/calm
You deserve to experience food freedom, I can’t wait to see you inside!
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